給自己貼標籤,就是為人生設限

事實上,不可能存在一種分類方法讓我們百分百地符合其中一種類型。因為100個人就有100種類型。如果你嘗試將自己與某一種類型匹配,那麼你一定無意識地排除了人格中其他無關的特質。一旦你將自己定義為某一特定類型,你就會根據該角色給自己設定界限,進而忘記自己還有改變和成長的潛能。

It is unlikely that anybody will be able to find a category into which they fit 100 per cent. It would take as many categories as there are human beings. If you try to fit yourself into a specific category, you may end up excluding parts of your personality from your consciousness. When you identify with one specific type, you may confine yourself to a certain role and forget that you are also capable of growth and change.

節錄自《高敏感是種天賦》

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